Our Dirty Pond

Hi Fellow Indians....!!

N this is only for people who are true Indians...n are bold enough to accept the realities...!!
I am not gonna start with the usual stuff...that Bharat is a great Nation ...!!

I am gonna start ...its not ...!!
Some of you might know ..where we heard that kinda line....:)
but jokes apart .....In Obama's recent visit we are celebrating our success...!!
Lets be honest ...have we really emerged...??

I would like to defer on that.You will just have to use ur brain..just once to realize this and after that u can again shut it down..!

Checkout any news site.. first 5-6 stories will be on corruption ...
next big stories would be murders/court cases....and the biggest one will be Rajni new release or SRK' bday ...!!

Is this is emerging ...!!

We have a habit to just carry on and keep ignoring...!! -- " chalta hai yaar ...chalne do .."
India is still suffering from maximum number of malnutrition cases...
India is one of the most corrupted country
In one of recent scams India suffered a loss of 1.75lacs Crores ...i am not sure how many zeros will be there in that number....
Seriously a normal man is so unsafe here...Anybody could come and hit you and go away ..!! and all you can do ...is actually nothing ..unless u have power...!!

The point I am making is what all we can do ..!!

We all heard of a phrase in our childhood ....some of you would have just entered childhood ...though ..!!
Ek kharab machli saare talaab ko ganda kar deti hai ...!!
kabhi vice versa nahin suna .....

ki ek saaf machli saare talaab saaf kar deti hai ...!!

possible hai ..agar woh saaf machli Whale hai to..!!
n yes this holds good in reality as well...

the number of people who are good ...is very few ..
Everybody is ready to fight on roads...
Everybody wants to earn ..but not the right way....actually these days the driving force is "No matter what" ..!


As per me ..what India needs is a DICTATOR...
No kidding ...we don't deserve democracy ...
We might do bad things ..but, when it comes to sach ka samna ..it becomes illegal to speak about them...
we are a Hypocritical nation ..!!

We have a fundamental right ...Freedom of speech..but, actually its - shut the **** up..!!

N i will be lying if i will say ..i am the most Honest and sincere citizen...
see i will have to bring a little Human psychology here...we tend to take path which is at ease...
ya we might not do unethical but, we will cover up by saying at least I m not doing bad for any other....

See what point I am making is we are "latton ke bhoot.. jo battoon se nahin maante.."
Every country's foundation is Law and Education ...
and if Law is weak ...then its like we are down...and that is what is happening...!!
I wont be totally negative here ...we are improving also ...but, still at what rate...tell me one corrupt leader who is behind the bars...!!

The point for this blog has been lost ..coz Igot so emotional I lost the track ...!!

See we need to gear ourselves and become a whale ....a Big one....otherwise seriously yeh talaab poora ganda ho jayega ...

N this is just a spark that needs to be ignited in all of us ..ki humein galti se bhi koi chance mile is ko better karne ka..we should just go for it...!!

Move On....

There was a moment in the movie,American Beauty,where Kevin Spacey explained the moment when he was dying and what he told was ....

"I'd always heard your entire life flashes in front of your eyes the second before you die"

.....and all he talks is just about the good things ...!!

I used to always think that nobody can actually explain that moment ...how can somebody be sure ..there has to be equation or some logical reasoning behind that ...!!!

Actually I definitely feel there is ....
Whenever we part from a city or from friends ,we just remember the good things/moments we had in that city and with those friends ...

Kevin Spacey also said the following lines...

" You will feel anything but gratitude for every single moment of my stupid little life you have no idea what I'm talking about, I'm sure. But don't worry, you will someday."

Today i exactly had a glimpse of that feeling he was trying to explain...

Today I left Bangalore city which has given me almost everything ... Almost ... Job .. Which eventually will make u get respect ..... Friends and I mean d friends you can count upon ... To be honest I started loving Bangalore more than my native,despite being away from home ..

But, what is that actually that make us love the city .
It can be attributed to many things out which weather is the last .... Its nice but to make u fall in love with city there has to b a lot more than weather.. Rite ....???

What is that i liked so much about Bangalore ? To recall it was the moments I shared with friends who were with me in all walks of life....
In college also it was always those friends who make those moments special ...

So why the hell am I leaving .... I had a decent job ..... Was it decent ??? ya i think it was.
Its a Cosmo which is getting better day by day ..

But, like everybody tells you have to move on ...move on ...
and what the hell is this moving on ....

Why cant we just settle these days when we know we have found the right people with whom you want to live with and that too at the right place..

I think we are too insecure and we don't want to admit it...
We know the people for who we want to stick forever wont stay forever just because of you..
Everybody wants a career growth ... But don't we think we are giving too much iof importance to this career growth?
What is the point of having so much of comforts without friends who can share your joy ..... Wat is the point of buying a 50" TV if it gonna be only you whose gonna watch it?
... who will be there to have a joyride in your new car ????

Ya, we can make friends everywhere .... But will it be the same?
Finding real friends is inversely proportional to your age ... This holds good after 18 yrs ...so you wont have same type of friends rite ...?
So its human psychology now .... You think that those things cant hold you as those people will eventually leave ....
But imagine if we all start thinking the same ...
I think that's why the concept of marriage would have come. ... I know there are other reasons for marriage evolution .... But i mean this also being one of them ..

At certain point a man needs somebody who will always be there no matter wherever he goes .... No matter how many jobs he changes .... There must be somebody .....
But the point is it will be just one ......
We all are social animals .... Life will be complete only if we have everybody important enough to share the beautiful moments with us